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some people have a real hard time
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changing the way that they behave and
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the way that they think and one of the
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reasons I think this is is that if we
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acknowledge the need to change something
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we first have to acknowledge the
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possibility that the way we're doing
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things may not already be optimal and
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because of the way we're educated the
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idea of things not being optimal which
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could also be interpreted as failure can
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be such a barrier that rather than being
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open and curious about how we can
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improve the way that we're you know
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relating to the world we just get very
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very defensive instead and effectively
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become unteachable so if you're
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interested in personal development a
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really important kind of foundation you
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have to kind of be open to the
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possibility of improvement and you know
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there's this classic phrase think that
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you may be mistaken it's a really good
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starting point it doesn't mean you're
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bad it just means that you may not have
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the whole picture you may not already be
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perfect because if you were why would
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you be interested in personal
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development thanks for watching
